Clarity....you don't find it in the mind. Your body has the answers. How often do we ask questions? And how often we already give the answer ourselves? Sometimes you'll better ask the other one. Ask the questions that are meant for them and can give you clarity about a feeling, a situation.
It's not your mind, it's your body that will answer and can lead you to your truth answers. It asks courage not to do this inquiry alone but to trust that the other is part of your journey