What makes it so difficult for us to set boundaries? I imagine walking around with a rope, Just sweeping it around. If I would hurt someone, it feels like my responsibility.But is it? Isn't it ones own responsibility to keep safe and not get in the way of that rope?
Yesterday.. my beautiful teacher Laoch.I had to make my boundaries very clear. But the gift for him was Safety. By choosing to respect my boundaries, he was able to relax and feel safe in his body.So yes: it's a gift for the other one to make clear your boundaries, so they can feel safe instead of wondering where you are. And yes, it takes some practice. But it's okay to be you and be there in your full Power